I am always so appreciate of the responses and amount of knowledge on here.
So here is another question, when a MLC'er has a an episode where they are appear "normal" or they act like things are fine, or they appear to want to reconcile and things to work out - how long do typically last before the alien reappears? We are way too early into the MLC for my W to have come out the other side. The other night she had what I call an "episode" where the alien appeared and lashed out towards me. I employed my best DB technique - maintain my composure, looked in the eye and validated everything she said even if I don't believe it. When she started cussing at me I told her that I would be happy to finish the conversation when she didn't direct those words at me. She stormed off to bed and about 30 minutes came back downstairs and talked to me like a person. It's been 2 days now of "normal" behavior and no alien episodes. She is talking about things as if we're going to be together. I am not bring up any R talks and just enjoying this ride. But how long does this last before the MLC alien will come back?
