A week or so after my last post, my H "woke up" and told me he saw all my changes, that he loved me and never wanted anyone else, and that he wanted to stay together and get some counseling for himself. He apologized profusely for everything he had put me through, and blocked the woman he was talking to on every platform. He hands over his phone, now, without question anytime I'm feeling insecure.
Then a couple weeks after that turnaround, my amazing, wonderful, solid rock of a father passed away unexpectedly. So, you understand why I've not been active. I'm still reeling from that but my H has been my lifeline through this horrible time and we are stronger and happier with each other than I could have ever have imagined despite the circumstances.
I will post in more detail later and I hope it can go on the success stories thread as I feel that's where this belongs.
Thank you all for your advice and support.
H 41 W 36 D16 S15--my stepchildren D11--biological M 6, T 13 Bomb/EA 1/19/23 Separated but living together
