Pattnee - its amazing how so many of these stories are so similar.
My W has been telling me things that she wants my kids to do - clean their rooms, do dishes, clean up, etc. They don't do it because I have "spoiled" them and do everything for them. The list of things she wants them to do, she hasn't told them to do. She wants me to do it. Any advice on how to respond in a proper DB'ing way?