Oops I just want to edit my post but left too late.
Correction is I love him but not the current version of him. Which I did mention to my friend. I loved who he was for 20 years before this new version emerged. I love the H that he used to be before he went through his current mlc ( which has died). This version of H I actually moreso just feel sorry for that whatever he is going through has completely overtaken him.

I should also note after reading your story Love4him I do wonder if my H also had a mlc 10 years ago which he didn’t pass through either. Such similar behaviours do now just not as many hurtful words but the disconnection, the reclusiveness the self isolation and pity party etc. Regardless at the end of the day

Last edited by Pattnee5; 08/10/23 01:29 PM.

M:41 H:48
T:20. M:16.5
BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023