A little less lost? Pt 3

[DnJ]

Hello Patt

It looks like indifference is taking hold in you. Your feelings regarding H are much muted as of late. A caution, in this void other feelings will appear larger than they really are. Ensure you make decisions based not upon emotions, or lack thereof.

I wanted him to make all the moves so he lives his reality and mess…

Has this changed? Has your wants and reasons changed? Or have your feelings changed?

…but he could drag his feet and live in the limbo like now for ages ( or until the next trigger goes off that something annoys him).

We often utilize what comes after “but” to justify negating what was stated before it. A justification based upon feelings to forgo something we before wanted to do. Do not alter your path based upon H’s delay or potential delay. If you want to toss in the towel, do it for you. For your reasons.

I am so torn if I sit and do nothing until he comes to me or if I keep pushing the table discussion.

(((Hugs)))

If you are torn, do not alter course. Until you are absolutely sure, follow that which you previously and rationally decided upon.

Like I’ve said many times before, indifference does unwind and our feelings do return.

Embrace limbo. You’ve such a gift of time. Use it wisely.

And remember, doing nothing is doing something.

D