I felt a bit like I was going against DB rules by re instigating the talk of sitting down and finalising legalities of the separation (ie finances , assets,house) but H is forever procrastinating and living in limbo. I wanted him to make all the moves so he lives his reality and mess but he could drag his feet and live in the limbo like now for ages ( or until the next trigger goes off that something annoys him). I am so torn if I sit and do nothing until he comes to me or if I keep pushing the table discussion🄓


M:41 H:48
T:20. M:16.5
BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023