So I am a little proud of myself. I received a crazy town text from W this afternoon telling me how spoiled are kids are and thats it my fault. Truth be told, I do spoil my kids a little bit but they're great kids. Bad for us at home but at school and around other parents they are well mannered and well behaved. Anyway - then she goes on about how she does this and does that while all I do is work and everything is around my schedule. She took my D12 to a doctors appointment. An appointment that she scheduled on a day that she knew I wouldn't be available. She has something to do with her side business that interfered. She then told me she thinks she needs to leave, maybe we will all appreciate her for that she does and that she is getting close to her breaking point.
My response was I understand you're angry, frustrated and hurt. We don't want her to leave but understand. I am paraphrasing because both text her to me and my response were a little lengthy. I tried to convey to her that I understand her frustrations. I thanked her for her honesty and I would like to work on this marriage but understand if its something she is no longer interested in.
Reading her text made me angry but I pulled over on the side of the rode and tried to search this forum for some appropriate responses. When I came home, she is laying on the bed looking at her phone and not a word was spoken. I'm doing my best to DB but I can tell you, this is not easy.
