...Not a lot has changed. ...I just don't trust that our R is real. Does that make sense? I suppose deep down I know that sweeping everything under the rug will come back to haunt us...
You can create the change. You have had the wake-up call. Working on the R is a never ending process. If you are in piecing, than the two of you should be having some R conversations. ( I have not gone through piecing, so someone else may be better qualified to elaborate). If not in piecing, you keep up the DBing.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
