If their affair dies out naturally, there is also no guaranty she will run back into my arms. I have seen in the texts (she chatted with her old friend and btw he flirted with her and she liked it..wtf maybe some personality defect?), she was angry on the OM due to his morbid jealousy and it seemed she wanted to end it. So now she knows he is not shining knight. She also complained that she refused new job because of him, that she wanted divorce because of him and blah blah blah..So there is no guaranty that if she goes back like you said she will be using me until she finds someone better. I told her if she will not divorce me and goes back into marriage instead, that she must start putting effort into our marriage and not acting like roommate but putting real effort. If not or the affair will continue, or she gets into new one along the way, I will divorce her with the speed of heartbeat. And I mean it. She obviusly did not expect me to say something like divorce so she was in shock. Maybe finally reality hits her because so far she just played games with me. I will know on Sunday..
