What a great read.

You’re one strong cookie Doug!

I hope you sent AP’s wife that message.

I’m surprised you let her back into the master bedroom, you’re a better man than me.

I’d have changed the locks and thrown her stuff on the sidewalk.

I hope the mediation goes well. If you can afford to keep the house and you like it, buy her out?

Don’t negotiate on less custody than you want.

If you’re going to struggle with the memories at the house, then maybe a clean break is best.