Thanks DnJ lots of good food for thought there for me. So many wise things to think and consider. The biggest thing is if I love someone set it free and that is so true I loved H and he needs to go and walk his path alone as he has chosen. He has a lot of his own issues and traumas they need to be sorted and I wasn’t invited.
Kind that’s so right with the market. We are lucky we are in a very good suburb of a capital city and have good equity. However the logistics of keeping it and H affording a rental for himself etc it just an overstretch. We had this house as a team for our family. He has broken that team and that family hence why this seems like The logical step
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023