Newbie Here

[Ready2Change]

I am going to read the rest of the posts, but will respond to this one now:

I am totally family man and don't have a ton of guys I can go out with. And honestly, when I go out socially, I prefer to have my kids with me.

Yup, just like the rest of us. Big 180 is to work on your guy friends now. Go do things alone that you enjoy, and you will meet the guys.

If you lean more introvert, then start leaning the other way. When I go out, I focus on remembering peoples name, and their story. One person at a time. Two or three a night.