A little less lost? Pt 3

[Pattnee5]

Can I just ask from the experts too am I going too far pushing the full split of assets/house? There isn’t a real logical way we can keep it financially or buy eachother out etc. H wouldn’t have enough money to keep it and rent elsewhere for himself and it would put a lot of strain on me too depending on the division of payments of everything. Selling everything will free up a lot of financial pressures but it’s literally starting again just le and the kids. I know it’s just bricks and mortar and I am not attached but I think once the family home is gone it’s done for good.(which i know it is based on what he says) I am also a bit worried if he did, he would feel he still owned it and come and go as he pleased and use it against me. I kind of feel like it would be me finally being free of him( the choice he made to leave and he’s made his bed and now needs to sleep in it). I know it sounds quite harsh but everyone is saying rip the Band-Aid off make a clean financial cut and start again. It’s not really being the lighthouse though as it’s more like closing that door.
Thoughts?

I should just add a side note lawyer advised to just rip the Band-Aid off and make a clean cut to avoid being in limbo for years and to be able to rebuild my life( family are on the same page)