Newbie Here

[Ready2Change]

Say this to yourself 100 times every day: "Everything that works is counter intuitive."

Easy first step is to do your research on attraction. Pretty easy to change about 10 behaviors and become more attractive to women in general. Then dig in to seduction. It is an indirect form of attraction.

One of the counter-intuitive things is to "Let go of control". Mostly this revolves around her and the outcome. Focus on controlling YOUR behavior. How you interact and respond to her and others.


Question your belief system.


When you have an urge to pursue, go out and do something exciting without her.

When she wants to talk, all you do is STFU and listen. You can make some emotional validation statements to her to show you are listening. Act as if she is the most interesting thing on this planet, and you want to know everything she has to say. You are now the most private person. Deflect any of your opinions. "I am not sure" or "I need time to think about that" type of statements. Judge when she is almost done. End the convo first. :I have something important to take care of"....if she asks what.... "nothing you need to worry about".


Dress different, act different, be different.

There is an urgency that you should have in changing your behavior. You have been given the gift of time. Use it wisely.

Regards,

R2C