Glad your son had a good party. Always a blessing to be there. I’m just gonna take your last 2 post point by point.
#1. She says “so much fun wish I was there”…Rock you realize this is lip service? She planned a trip that purposely missed the birthday. No she didn’t wish she was there or she would have been. She was exactly where she wanted to be.
#2. So many people=unnecessary chit chat.
#3. Has anyone heard this “female” friend that was news to you on the video call? We sure we shouldn’t be taking the fe part out of that word?
#4. She not concerned about your child with special needs, she concerned about you. That right there tells us all you aren’t as ok as your want us to believe.
Rock I’ve alluded to this before, I really believe you use the special needs to keep contact more often than necessary. If it was that dire than why is she leaving for a month? And if it is that dire, why are you trying to fix a relationship with a woman who doesn’t seem to much care it’s dire?
I honestly believe your wife thinks you guys are friends and has been placating you through a lot of this.
Do you have a history of self harm or threats of self harm?
As for advice, don’t talk to her again while she’s gone. I can almost guarantee she’s on a trip with another man, and even if she isn’t it doesn’t change the fact there’s nothing to talk her about. She can converse with her children just fine without you. As a matter a fact I suggest you tell her to stop sending you anything.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
