Did your W ever talk to you before this about those things “you were at fault” for? Because if she didn’t then that’s on her, we aren’t mind readers. H used the same argument with me about doing more housework( he worked from home and I had two jobs so he did more of the house duties during the day) he never said anything about it and his argument was “ I shouldn’t have to say anything you should just know “ 🙄 I think one thing I have gotten out of this lately is they play the victim so much and shift so much blame.
Hey Keyser, maybe I was actually married to Pattnee's husband (lol)!
I heard this one too. ("You should have known.")
Speaking only for myself, if I noticed some behavior in my spouse that I could see threatening the marriage down the road, I'd say, "Let's get some time away from the kids, sit down, and have a talk. We need to nip this in the bud NOW."
But the ones that leave don't do that. They suffer in silence, then claim they did everything they could.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
