I just want my W back. The alien who took over her body is not who I married. I have good days and bad days. We still do things as a family and act as if its normal around other friends and family but in private its far from normal. I would do anything to get back to where we were but I realize after all of the damage that has been done, we will never be the same.
I hear you. I have felt exactly the same way.
You already recognize that your marriage is over. What I mean by that is not that you are necessarily going to divorce immediately. What I mean is that you recognize that even if you stay together, what was going on in the marriage was not working so you are going to have to visualize a complete revision. And your goal is to make yourself capable of carrying out that revision.
Does that mean you will definitely stay married to her? No. What it does mean, however, is that you will be better equipped for the future regardless of what happens.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
