Thank you DnJ - I have read so much the past few weeks. A lot of Cadet's post and other I have read multiple times. It was a big step even posting on here. Its something I thought I would never be able to do but thats how much I appreciate and firmly believe in this website.
I have a question regarding intimacy. My W has said she doesn't want to have intimacy so she doesn't give me mixed signals or false hope. However, we have had sex on a few occasions since BD two months ago and as recently as two days ago. I have initiated it every time that I can remember with one exception when she did. I'm afraid to ask but should I stop trying to initiate it? If she is receptive to it then I was thinking it was a good thing. I found another thread on here where the response seemed divided on good or bad. As long as she isn't cake eating then I was thinking it was good for the R and keeping me in the game even while DB'ing. Thoughts?
