Hi Keyes I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. I am early in my journey ( 7 months since BD and 4.5 months since H moved out). These boards are so full of amazing posts and amazing people. They are all here to hold your hand. I am a newbie so I would let the experts jump in but honestly read DR then re read it. Then read on this forum all rhe pinned threads as well as MLc. The MLC board has great pinned posts too. Sounds like your wife is seeking a lot of attention. It s*cks. It really does. My heart
Is still wounded but we pick ourselves up dust ourselves off and keep going. This is their journey their crisis.I would try really hard to let go of the glimmers of hope or small things that do us LBS seem like they are coming around. They arent( or not her anyway).
Keep reading keep posting the regulars will chime
In with some amazing pears of wisdom. Hang in there, there’s enough of us here to support you through this


M:41 H:48
T:20. M:16.5
BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023