Your are right. I am not 100% sure what to do. If I gave her ultimatum like she has 2 weeks to end the affair else she must leave and after 2 weeks she would be still at home knowing I cannot legally kick her out then I achieve nothing. I am pretty sure all the guys here who did file for D first expected theirs wifes to come back otherwise those guys would not be reading this forum. Not sure if this is also your case but I am curious if wifes ever come back afer man files for D first.
