No need to apologize. I totally understand. I am also on vacation for two weeks with limited Internet connection. We have been with my parents playing cute little happy family, now going to my in-law's pretending all is OK. Kind of bizzare. I am still weighting all my options but like Kind18 already mentioned aparently I have just 2 options left.. 3 days ago she was getting sms early in the morning and I knew it was from him. I was looking at her while she was replying and then calmly said her just these words - do not provoke me, my patience is gone. It had an immediate effect, she did not touch her cell phone since then at least not in my presence but I am not stupid, I know she is chatting when I am not around. Her behaviour towards me and kids rapidly improved when I compare March-May and how she behaves now.
But do you happen to know statistically which approach is better in terms of future possible reconciliation? What is the success rate for your approach?

Last edited by DnJ; 07/29/23 02:19 PM. Reason: Corrected typo.