Rock, I appreciate the fact you keep coming back, I respect that honestly. I'm not really this much of an a-hole I promise. I'm trying to shock you out of this sir. Get you out of your comfort zone. There's a comfortable town that exists in everyones world. It's call Rut. Alot of people get stuck there and can't get out.
Your kids need more support Rock, and you can't give it to them while you are this stuck. I know this from first hand experience.
The truth is a lot of marriages can't be saved. This isn't a magic bullet, but what DB will do is allow you to save yourself. Once you've saved yourself, became the man you should have been, the idea is that attracts your wife back into the fold.
You marriage is over Rock, I'm not saying there can't be a 2nd chance with your wife, but I am saying the old marriage, the old ways, they are over, and they should be, as that's what got you here in the first place.
Lets try this...and be 100% honest. What exactly do you need? Do you need more aggressive call outs? More supportive calls out? Are you goals still the same?
What can we do to ensure you start moving forward? I've been where you are sir. I've been straight up broken as a man, a person, a father and husband, but I made it to the other side. I put myself back together better than ever and have learn so much. What can we do to get you to our side of the river?
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
