#1. Your update about anger surfacing and you need to protect your family from free radical behavior because she went a month long trip would suggest you do see her as a horrible person but if I misread that than ok.
#2. All your kids are adults; it’s been a year. Here’s the rub for me Rock. Your kids miss their mom, you understand that, haven’t said she’s a bad mom, but she just left 2 of her kids with “significant special needs” for a month…..
#3. I didn't suggest this shouldn’t effect your kids. I suggested they shouldn’t be as adults, really at any age, still this stuck on their parent’s divorce a year later and they need IC. If you wanna twist that into something I didn’t say to play the victim feel free too, it’s your life.
#4. I asked if this was between the 24 and 26 yr old….
When did you start therapy and how often are you going?
I would honestly suggest you file for divorce and save yourself. You’re so unhealthily codependent and you don’t even see it.
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
