Apart from divorce option what kind of boundaries should I set? At the moment two personalities are fighting in my head.. one wants to kick her out and divorce her asap, the second one, the loving one wants her back and is able to wait for few more months.. Even if she says she ends this affair her feelings just does not disappear. But I am not there yet, so far it continues even in secret. Her current mindset is that she felt being taken for granted and was lacking attention from my side during last 1,5 year so she had right to cheat..wtf.. Also she said she wants a divorce but she did not tell it to her family yet. Do you think should I disclose it to my/her family what is going on? Or only after she/I file for D. The other thing is not sure if it is common by cheating W's, she is not looking into my eyes while talking to me (rarely she does) nor looking at my body when I go to the bathroom to take a shower (I go there in my boxer shorts).
