Hi Terapin, I had a discussion with my W few weeks back and she told that she wants a divorce because we have a stand-off here. She knows I do not accept affair (even though she continues with it thinking I do not know about that), and she does not want to cut OM off. That's why she said divorce but she also said she does not have money to move out and get a flat for herself and apparently she is not going to live with OM yet. Funny thing is she does not want any money out of divorce, at least now. I told her that kids will stay at home.. that's why she is ambivalent (not towards me since she already made up her mind, but regarding moving out). Agree she is using my hospitality and enjoys all the benefits our family and I can provide..
