Just to further add, in my sitch, I have to be very reliable, dependable and consistently be there in the background to build up trust with H to help bring him back into the M. I suppose that is my 180 as I used to try and avoid H in difficult situations by not coming and having an excuse not to be with him for instance and all that did was show H that was not to be relied upon and not to be trusted. I will no longer avoid his Skids.
Me 49 H 61 T 8yrs M 1.5yrs LAT H filed for D from XW ‘18, granted ‘19 We M ‘22 H in EA with XW (lying about contact, evidence of Affair contact) BD Aug ‘23
