Hi Terapin, thanks for your reply, much appreciated. I do not know OM personally but I know who he is, have seen him multiple times and I even know where he lives. I go jogging and have seen him sitting on the bench near his apartment building. I wanted to confront him or maybe punch him but quickly realized it would be a huge mistake so I let him be. Yes she is lying constantly, she pretends that she is not seeing him but I know what I have seen in her cell phone. It is disgusting. I do not understand how she can be so selfish, suddenly 10 years of marriage, two kids, financial stuff solved, means nothing to her and she is ready to ruin everything we created even the future of our kids. Her personality changed, she is re-writing history of our marriage. She paints everything black.. Pure mute admiration.. We do not have joint bank account that's the good thing. She even told me that she does not want any money from me. Nothing.. Strange thing is that she tells me that it is not about this dude but she was not satisfied in our marriage for the last 1,5 years so as a result she lost feelings for me. I know for sure that prior to her work (back in October last year) she did not even think about possibility to leave me. She was still attached to me, said I love you, cared for me etc.. So I know it IS about this dude and her feelings of love for him.. She thought that when she told me about this dude and basically broke up with me that it is all OK she can continue with her affair and does not give a *uck about me and my feelings. So she can eat her cake and have an affair or new relationship with OM despite the fact she is still married. Wtf.. I did not want to file for divorce but apparently this is the only way for me to keep my dignity and do not be her doormat..
