Also in the last 5 days, H told me I was beautiful a few times which he normally wouldn’t say too much of and I stopped asking for reassurance, compliments a few years ago, and now, back to this secretive bs with XW.

This is awful! Would someone explain what could be going on? Is he saying those things and doing nice things because he can see a change in me and he is back or is it because he is feeling guilty?

Kanga

Me 49
H 61
T 8yrs
M 1.5yrs
LAT
H filed for D from XW ‘18, granted ‘19
We M ‘22
H in EA with XW (lying about contact, evidence of Affair contact)
BD Aug ‘23