The article on depression IS AN EYE OPENER! I APPRECIATE YOU AND THE INFORMATION! I printed it! Keeper!
As you mentioned. He is giving me certain belongings of mine and have left off one huge item of mine in our communication which is a non negotiable for me.
Not sure if he thinks, like a child , if he doesn’t mention it, I will not notice or remember my HUGE MISSING ELEPHANT belonging. Who knows. Lol.
TWO QUESTIONS:
1: Someone said it is best to not user their names when writing them, how accurate is this?
2: When they move in with the persons that caused their trauma, does this work for or against them moving through or not in their journey.
I appreciate your help Job. You have quieted my soul. I see this as part of his journey and possibilities of us in the future as I let him go to deal with his stuff. Whether we reconnect and or reconcile is for the future to unfold.
FOR THE FIRST TIME! Not an attack of me. His story.
FOR THE FIRST TIME IN ALMOST 4 years my h used the word “ ‘we can meet and go together…”
A tiny, tiny, tiny, thing, however I watched him methodically separated from me and that word he intentionally avoided and when I used it at the onset of his journey he was spit fire to push that away and separate to singular pronouns.
As well, I did not fall apart in a ball of anxiety when i read his text nor stop my life and fall into a depression. I cried bit. I did not fall apart. HUGE DIFFERENCE! Thank you. THANK YOU! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
