Slightly better day today. Buried myself in work, watched D14 last night play hockey, walked the dog in the beautiful sunshine, and had my dear friend over with her son who is 10 and we all played Catan( board game ) with the kids.
Did my best to avoid H as much as I could. He was with kids for part of the day and when we crossed paths he proceeded to tell me he had done all the washing and sorting and put stuff away. He even put the sheets away in the high cupboard which he has NEVER done. All I said was “ you didn’t have to do that”. Felt bad I didn’t even say Thankyou I just busied myself and left the room.
Ughhh connection with boundaries how do you even do it without having a resting b**ch face ( pardon the pun)


M:41 H:48
T:20. M:16.5
BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023