I just feel I need more time on my own being single.
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Hi MA, So nice to read your latest update, I feel like we are on the same path and timeframe however you are miles ahead of my headspace/heart. While I don’t have the most amazing advice I think you answered your own question right here. Everyone on here always says how sometimes the WAS come running back and by then the LbS are moving on.
Trust your instinct. I think that’s one thing I have learnt in all of this. While I am quite a long way behind where you are, I am striving to be in a really balanced and grounded position hopefully soon so IF my H decides to pull a similar stunt I can make the best decision for me and my kids.
I think if it was me I would be making H life pretty darn difficult. My H has some serious bridges to rebuild and some serious trust to rebuild. We have to remember our old marriage is long gone and dead. We never step back into that. It has to be a whole new one.
Remember this happened FOR you not to you. And it seems to me you have absolutely succeeded in how you can grow and become better from this.
While I can’t give you any advice as I haven’t been there ( I’m still stuck atm) I think your gut intuition is spot on. You’re not ready and you don’t trust him yet!!!
I’m so in awe of you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻amazing job
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023
