BTW, check out some of the other threads. Lots of good information and wisdom from the compassionate folks around here.

I’d suggest looking up Pattnee5 and MA1970 on For Newcomers, if you haven’t yet. Links to their first posts:

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2945122#Post2945122

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2943184

Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.