Just reflecting back on what I have written and trying to make sense of what is going on in my marriage. I’m a bit confused as to whether I ought to be piecing as well as 180’s, detaching etc.
I think my H is MLCing and him wanting to keep XW around is very uncomfortable. However, he hasn’t wanted to leave the marriage, even though I think he has emotionally checked out most of the time.
I would appreciate some feedback.
Me 49 H 61 T 8yrs M 1.5yrs LAT H filed for D from XW ‘18, granted ‘19 We M ‘22 H in EA with XW (lying about contact, evidence of Affair contact) BD Aug ‘23
