Moving internationally and leaving the kids sure screams “running”.
My advice is always to let the spouse who wants out do the heavy lifting; unless you need financial security and/or protection, then get it. If H lives in another country it will be very difficult to enforce his financial obligations. Speak to a lawyer ASAP. You might consider forgoing alimony for him giving you his portion of the house. I’d push for sole custody as well. MLCers usually become terrible parent during their running, and he appears to be heading that way.
Stay strong girl.
D
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
