Doesn't mean I'm giving up, but I recognize she's tearing through life like a tornado and I can't do anything about that.
I think that’s the hardest thing for us LBS. The fact that we can’t do anything about it and it’s out of our control. I found that so difficult early on as I am such a “fixer” and whenever faced with adversity I rise and take the reins. It certainly is hard to let that side of everything go, however all I focus on now is I can only fix my side of things. What H does or doesn’t do is on them.
I’m sorry to hear about your rough day. They come and go but time does help and they get a bit more spread out( despite the blows)
Perfectly normal to have hope and not want to give up. I haven’t either I just feel my H is further and further away from any sort of reconciliation and I need to let him go to walk his path now on his self discovery. Maybe our paths will re align and maybe they won’t we always have to keep focus on ourselves. We are the main character of our story
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023
