Thanks D, t really has been a day of feeling at peace within myself now x as much as I knew I wasn’t to blame I think now it’s cemented for me.
I am always amazed at how true everything DnJ says hits. I feel he is right on the money about so many things.
I saw a great quote online yesterday, that I will think of anytime I am tempted to feel too much guilt or blame. Perhaps it will resonate for you too. It says:
"Assigning blame in marriage is like saying, 'Your side of the boat is sinking.'"
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023