I must say I used to really hurt every time he has thrown the “ I only stayed for the kids” and “I moved to this city for you and left my family and friends”. That used to cut me so deep. Now I just think of how pathetic that actually sounds. He left his city at age 26 and is now 48. He has now almost spent the same amount of time here and since when did I become the reason for his inability to make and sustain friendships. This truth twisting is honestly mind boggling that they can cause so much pain


M:41 H:48
T:20. M:16.5
BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023