Thanks Sunflyer so very true they need to feel their own pain and learn that they are to blame for their unhappiness. I refuse to keep getting dragged down into his boiling bubbling pot of issues. He needs to learn to sink or swim now unfortunately. I tried for a very long time. What a juvenile teenager. I am no longer going to be treated like garbage that he can toss around to fuel his ego.
I do feel I am getting stronger and better. I know I will come away a better woman who has immensely grown through this and will have a thriving second half of life. I am now anticipating the typical MLC script or email or something to say “ I am done for good let’s start proceedings” I know is possibly coming next the only difference is I will be in a far better position to make a more balanced decision for me and the kids


M:41 H:48
T:20. M:16.5
BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023