Originally Posted by Pattnee5
Thanks Rock. Am always a bit harsh on myself unfortunately. Always been someone with a lot of drive and determination and positivity. So this whole life event has certainly taught me alot. I am not a fan of sitting back and not fixing things 🤣

This is our problem. We are fixers, and we have loved ones who don't want to be fixed. They have chosen unhappiness; we are not forcing it on them.

Ultimately, they will have to learn for themselves, that they have done plenty to create the unhappiness that they feel. And if they don't learn that, they are going to be dealing with misery for the rest of their lives, and blaming it on someone else.


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T 26 M 23
S18, S14
BD May 2023
D filed June 2023
OM1 confirmed: December 2023
OM2 confirmed: October 2023