I will echo what DnJ said...you are welcome to post anywhere on the forum that you think is the right place to post.
You sound like a very wise person who has rediscovered yourself. The journey that we all have taken does open our eyes to life and what it has to offer. We sometimes do not realize just how much of ourselves that we have given to a relationship until that relationship has died. Once we have found our footing again, we begin to heal and rediscover ourselves and continue on to new opportunities as well as meeting new people along the way.
As the saying goes "you've come a long way baby". Your postings will help others and give them the strength and encouragement to move forward and realize that there is life after a relationship crisis. Keep up the good work!
Thank you, job.
It is never easy, but I put one foot in front of the other.
All said, I've lived some pretty great experiences in my life. I know there can be more. I am 58 years young. I feel pretty young; even W has told me over the years that I always looked younger than my age. Only giveaway is the graying hair lol. I don't have the hormones of a teenager anymore, but libido is still pretty good too.
It seemed strange to me at first, but I feel my self-perception is changing somewhat. I always had some insecurity about my looks. I used to look in the mirror and only see all the flaws. Now, for some reason, I am starting to ignore the flaws and look at the assets.
I think to myself, "W always liked that part of me. You know what? I like it, too. I'll never be Mr. Universe, but for a guy my age, that's not bad."
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
