Oh D I always love your wise words. Thankyou for such detailed explanation. Everything makes so much sense that you say and all so true. All the telltale signs of some sort of MLC or transition. In the past I haven’t wanted to let go in hopes I could fix him but now I have very much accepted I can’t, have been hurt one too many times by his words and actions, it certainly is my time to step back and walk my path and like you said, let him run to catch up. And yes that is exactly what I was planning to do, just seek what my legal options will be and just have that knowledge there in my back pocket. I won’t force him to make a decision nor go seek it. He needs to come to me and make the call. However I do need to know where I stand and be prepared. Goodness knows if he has been doing anything sly behind my back in preparing legal things he says he hasn’t but honestly I don’t believe anything from the alien that currently occupies my H body Thanks again D for your words of encouragement. I was feeling quite flat today too until I read your reply
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023