I’m still so lost -Pt 2

[Pattnee5]

Hi Ma and Rockon

Thanks so much 🥰yes I have been extremely patient (and still am in a way) but generally have been good. I can see H come out of his hole then when it gets a bit much retreat. I think seeing this happen more and more makes it easier to detach. I can’t keep trying to pull him out of his hole if he doesn’t want me to.

I am contemplating seeking my legal options too for when (and if) we end up heading down the divorce path. He still hasn’t mentioned it or anything. Seems to think we would co exist as friends etc I made it perfectly clear recently if he chooses to separate then that involves splitting everything assets house etc and both going our separate ways and I don’t want him in my life as I try and rebuild mine. He didn’t like that at all, got angry retreated the usual story.

The more I read about this midlife transition the more it seems like him. It’s sad but nothing I can do anymore I am smiling again and enjoying my life.