Originally Posted by DnJ
And most importantly letting son know this is not about him in any way shape or form
Just my 2 cents, but my understanding is the word NOT is best avoided...

IE: "This is an adult issue between your mother and I."


I would also avoid the "We" statements and you use the "I".

Dad: "I love you."

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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