W just said she wants to tell our son tomorrow. This pisses me off to no end, as it's 4th of July weekend, his birthday next Thursday, and surgery the following week. Just another example of how insensitive and selfish she really is. I told her this is like the worst time to tell him, but she said "maybe, but we need to get this done asap." Then she went on to say stuff like how it probably won't bother him at all, how we couldn't possibly wait till after his surgery cause we need to get the house on the market, and how we both need to be 'united and upbeat' about talking to him. lol.
I already know her 'plan'. She's going to make it seem like this is a mutual decision that not only her and I, but all are friends and family are happy about. She better pray he doesn't start asking questions to me like 'daddy, why don't you want to be with me all the time?', 'dad, why do you want to leave mom and break up our family?'.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
