I will echo what DnJ said...you are welcome to post anywhere on the forum that you think is the right place to post.
You sound like a very wise person who has rediscovered yourself. The journey that we all have taken does open our eyes to life and what it has to offer. We sometimes do not realize just how much of ourselves that we have given to a relationship until that relationship has died. Once we have found our footing again, we begin to heal and rediscover ourselves and continue on to new opportunities as well as meeting new people along the way.
As the saying goes "you've come a long way baby". Your postings will help others and give them the strength and encouragement to move forward and realize that there is life after a relationship crisis. Keep up the good work!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
