There is absolutely nothing you can do to change her narrative. The best thing for you to do is to let it go, and make your all your decisions based on what you know is the right thing to do - not on how she might frame things to others or how you imagine people may perceive you.
It’s probably the hardest part of being a LBS. But trust me, one day you just won’t care.
I understand. And I certainly did not interpret your comments as having a go at me at all.
I have good days and bad days. I don't show my frustration or anger in front of her at all, regardless of whether the day is "good" or "bad". I won't even mention the things I've overheard. When something happens that riles me up, I vent it here or find something else to do. That's on a "bad day."
I do imagine myself (usually on a "good day"), at some point in the future, looking back and saying, "Why was I so hung up on staying with her? I can do better than her."
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
