Hi Kind, I've taken a little time to reflect & have a think about your comments. My primary emotion isn't worry about his motivation. I think it probably comes back to the control. If I can figure out the motive, I feel more able to consider my response. I genuinely don't feel thrown by what he's done & bizarrely enough I'm not even angry about it. I'm just curious as to why do it?
I will get the locks changed. It was arranged that he would look after the cat so didn't want to change them till he'd done the cat sitting. He offered to do this to save cattery fees but moving forward, I'm just going to pay the cattery fees.
Doorbell is on the list!
This week is all go with D's prom so trying to stay focused on that
