Acceptance 2

[Ready2Change]

So back to the big picture:

1) Avoid R talks like the plague.
2) If you get into R talk, Listen and reflect back what emotional state you believe she was in. Be the first to leave.
3) Filter your thoughts and words down to simple statements. (I am thinking, I am not sure, I will think about that)
4) Do not share your emotional state with her. Control it. You are content no matter what storm is going on (IE her drama).

5) Dancing- Make every woman you interact with laugh. Practice reflecting their emotional state (most likely will be the not so scary emotions...a lot better than angry or sad or frustrated that you are most likely dealing with coming out of W). Holding eye contact (if that is an issue) with the women watching you dance.

This list is just my 2cents. You should have your own list that is longer, more detailed, in the order that you think is important. It is always a work in progress.


R2C is currently working on holding other peoples attention longer in conversations. I have 3 people request for me to finish my story after the conversation went a few other directions. I got asked a simple question that I used to Segway into a more interesting response.