So sorry for not responding for so long. I've been incredibly busy lately with work, the kids, a course I'm doing, travelling...in short, as you say, taking a lot of time for myself and the people I love.
This evening, I am on my own in a hotel for work-related matters and I really wanted to read an update from the people who helped me soooo much during the most difficult time of my life.
So here I am!!
Good to read you are taking care of yourself. The fact you say you are still sort of griefing the life you had and the plan you had in mind going forward is perfectly normal. I have, like DejaVu6 stated and I assume many others on this platform, still sometimes this feeling as well.
Are you already dating, or still kind of keeping that on a low level?