Have an appointment this afternoon with a different lawyer. This one came highly recommended from a friend. His secretary calls yesterday and said after reviewing his appointment log, he realizes he can't see me due to a conflict of interest. That's the 2nd L I've called that has this 'conflict'. I'm pretty mad. The friend that referred him to me used him in his D. His current girlfriend and my W are friends, so maybe she told W about him. L also graduated with or around my W, so maybe that's the conflict. Whatever. I still have the L I had the consult with, but she's young and I'm not sure how she'll do if things go south.
On Saturday W asked if our mutual friends could come over. I was busy on the grill and mowing grass, but said I didn't care. The 4 of us hung out like old times, then they wanted to go to the nearby casino. I had no interest, but the 3 of them talked me into it. When we got there I went straight to the poker room and didn't see them again for an hour or two. The 4 of us then ate and hung out, then went home.
I don't think W understands that I'm really not interested in 'hanging out' with her. I'll do it out of necessity for the time being, and it's not bad if friends come over our house or something. But going 'out' with her is just weird. Especially in a place like that, where there's tons of smoking hot women everywhere.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
